Some men, or maybe alot of men have said at one point in their life, that ‘Looks are not important’.

“Its the heart that matters”..

 

And most times I would believe that hey, this guy is genuinely non-shallow.

 

Then, the shallowness would always surface somehow that would just discredit them. Yes, the shallowness would still be around even in the most nicest guys.

 

So never, ever, EVER, believe it when a guy says, “Looks don’t matter to me.. I pandang hati”…

 

BULLCRAP.

 

Men are naturally VISUAL in character. No matter what they say, looks are still what they would look for 1st.

THEN, they would take notice of your personality or disposition.

The total opposite compared to girls. The female of the species gets attracted to the good looking hunks with tight butts and all. No doubt about that.

BUT, we don’t place importance on it. We really don’t. We MEAN IT. We don’t just SAY it.

For a girl, personality & disposition comes 1st. Looks wise, as long as you are pleasant looking for us, on our own terms, then that’s good enough for us.

Yea sure, there are a handful of shallow biatches out there who places looks up on a pedestal.

But at the end of the day, we CHOOSE personality & disposition. A.k.a, YOU as a person.

 

Looks can only go so far. If you think a person’s personality is flake, have you ever taken notice of how YOU act with the so called flakey one?

Maybe it is YOU who is not being friendly enough. And hence you get the same reaction. Ever thought of that?

If only for once, the situation is reversed, then maybe the men folks would realise what it is like to actually like someone or be attracted to someone 1st & foremost for themselves.. and not for what they see.

 

Then maybe, just maybe.. the world would be a better place for a lot of ladies out there.