Of all the advices I have received, the one that finally got thru to me & my thick skull was one that was from a Man.

He said, let the guy be. Maybe he’s shy,Maybe he’s unsure of his own feelings. Maybe it’s a thousand different things. But most importantly, You be YOU. Don’t do anything until HE initiates it.  Be independent. That’s when you would be worth it.

Let HIM step up and be a confident Man if he can. If he knows what he wants.

My new Pal even told me of a song that sums up the situation aptly and that gives me inspiration to be Strong.

Hehehe.. to think, the advise that I would finally take heed to comes from my new “Gal Pal”.. a married man who bakes & teaches!.. LOL.

But wise words should be listened to and taken into practice. So that’s what I would do. Just Be Me.

Now lets see whether He’s strong enough to be my man.. coz’ I KNOW I’m worth it.

(I feel a new found sense of confidence. Finally I have gotten my smile back.)

God..I feel like hell tonight
Tears of rage I cannot fight
I’d be the last to help you understand
Are you strong enough to be my man?

Lie to me
I promise I’ll believe
Lie to me
But please don’t leave